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The Moth Radio Hour: Fear Factor

Oct 8, 2024
Zaena Tessema recounts her mother's use of a mysterious figure to control her childhood antics. Diane Kastiel shares the thrill and fear of an unexpected pregnancy at 46, while Tito Chavez-Nguyen channels Bruce Lee to navigate school challenges. Patricia Aro humorously navigates her dread of discussing death with her kids, and Chelsea Shorte recalls a tense police encounter during her masculine presentation. Rufus May opens up about the fear of disclosing a mental health diagnosis in his quest to become a psychologist.
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Quick takeaways

  • Zaina Tisema's story illustrates how childhood fears can be shaped by parental influence, often revealing deeper, personal meanings as one grows.
  • Chelsea Short's experience highlights the acute anxiety tied to navigating identity and safety within the context of systemic discrimination.

Deep dives

The Fear of the Unknown: A Personal Journey

Zaina Tisema shares her childhood experience with an enigmatic figure named Derabé, utilized by her mother as a method of instilling obedience and discipline. The concept of Derabé was rooted in fear, prompting immediate compliance from Zaina and her siblings whenever it was mentioned. As they matured, their understanding of Derabé evolved, revealing that each sibling perceived it differently based on their personal fears, from a giant spider to a vampire rabbit. Ultimately, their mother's revelation about the true identity of Derabé as an ordinary person from Ethiopia highlighted the idea that often the things we fear are not as significant as they seem.

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