

Mormon on my Own Terms - Olivia Calvert | Ep. 2049
Aug 11, 2025
In this conversation, Olivia Calvert opens up about her unique approach to faith as a Mormon woman. A self-described 'buffet Mormon,' she shares her journey toward 'casual discipleship' while navigating doubts and church expectations. Olivia discusses the impact of purity culture and church history on her identity. She also explores the tension between tradition and personal beliefs, particularly in relation to modesty and community support, offering valuable insights for those feeling out of place within the faith.
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Small-Town 'Cool Mormon' Upbringing
- Olivia grew up in Parker, Colorado in a blended Christian environment with Mormon friends.
- Her family called themselves 'cool Mormons' who attended but did not fully immerse faith into daily life.
Matriarchal Home Shaped Her View Of Priesthood
- Olivia's mother carried spiritual leadership while her father was the fun parent, creating a family matriarchy.
- That lack of visible priesthood authority reduced Olivia's valuation of priesthood power and control.
Resonance With Lehi's 'Ashamed' Group
- Olivia resonated with the Lehi dream group that tasted the fruit but felt ashamed afterward.
- She felt part of the church yet embarrassed by many Mormon cultural trappings.