
This American Life 851: Try a Little Tenderness
Jan 25, 2026
Josh Johnson, a comedian, dives into the controversial topic of spanking and its long-lasting effects on discipline, prompting laughter and reflection. Writer Etgar Keret shares an intriguing tale about a bus driver who strictly enforces rules, leaving late passengers to ponder their choices. John Mulaney, currently starring on Broadway, shares his flair for storytelling, combining humor with poignant moments. Amidst these narratives, themes of kindness in a harsh world and the delicate dance of human emotions resonate throughout their discussions.
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Sibling Rivalry Resolution
- Two sisters, May and Johanna, argue over clothing.
- May, wanting to punch Johanna, instead punches her butt, resolving the conflict.
Turning the Other Cheek (or Butt)
- Ira Glass introduces the concept of "turning the other cheek."
- Johanna's offer to be punched in the butt is a humorous parallel.
Crow Vengeance
- Alan Martin, a nature lover, is attacked by crows after cutting down a tree.
- He tries various methods to appease them, including offerings of food.


