038: Separating from your partner

This episode will talk you through the practical life admin issues you will need to address if you embark on the path of separating from your partner

There have been media reports that the divorce rate is expected to spike due to COVID-19. Search engine data for divorce usually increases after Christmas and New Year, but Google has revealed that people are already considering their choices, which is unsurprising given the stresses of homeschooling, lockdown, job loss and income loss.

They talk about seeing a lawyer to seek initial advice (ideally prior to separation). If you are looking for a lawyer:

• many lawyers experienced in family law will give you an initial free or reduced-rate consultation
• ask for recommendations from friends who have gone through the same situation 
• check to see if you are eligible for Legal Aid
• contact your state law society or law institute.

They talk about making the most of a meeting with lawyers including preparing information ahead of time such as:

• the history of your relationship
• a list of your assets - including rough values and details of any debts 
• preparing some written questions including an estimate of costs at each stage. You might want to consider taking a friend with you to the meeting to take notes.

Mia talks about the steps she went through to prepare for her separation including: