The Bulletin

Online Gaming, Loneliness, and Remembering 9/11

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Sep 19, 2025
Alan Noble, an Associate Professor and culture writer, discusses the loneliness epidemic, sparked by the recent events surrounding Charlie Kirk’s alleged murderer. He delves into how online communities can both mask and exacerbate feelings of isolation among students. Christina Ray Stanton, a licensed NYC tour guide and 9/11 author, shares her personal account of the World Trade Center collapse. She reflects on the enduring aftermath of 9/11, the shifting definitions of terrorism, and the importance of how we remember such pivotal moments.
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INSIGHT

College Is A Peak Moment For Loneliness

  • Students enter college facing major loneliness as they lose previous social anchors and struggle to connect.
  • Digital parasocial ties and doomscrolling often replace real-world relationship-building.
INSIGHT

Loneliness Hides Behind Different Faces

  • Loneliness isn't obvious from outward behavior; exuberant people can feel deeply isolated while quiet people may have rich ties.
  • The problem spans generations and often worsens in older adults who are less visible to interventions.
ADVICE

Offer Real Alternatives, Not Just Warnings

  • Recognize people usually know their habits harm them and focus on offering realistic alternatives.
  • Provide concrete alternatives and pathways rather than merely arguing that screens are bad.
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