The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

CNLP 725 | Too Young to Lead? John Eldredge on Age, Authority, and the Hidden Hunger Success and Marriage Can't Fill

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Apr 29, 2025
Join John Eldredge, a bestselling author and leader of Wild at Heart, as he explores the question of whether age limits effective leadership. He emphasizes the unique challenges young pastors face and the importance of mentorship in navigating their roles. Eldredge discusses the stages of masculine development and how emotional depth can enhance leadership. He advocates for a community-focused approach over personal ambition, encouraging leaders to find fulfillment in serving others while fostering deeper connections with God.
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INSIGHT

Stages of Masculine Development

  • Men progress through stages: beloved son, ranger, warrior, lover, king, and sage.
  • Missing belovedness in childhood leads to insecurity and narcissistic leadership in adulthood.
INSIGHT

True Kings Serve Their People

  • The king stage requires a surrender of ego in leadership to serve others.
  • A good king’s true test is if people under him flourish in all areas of life.
ADVICE

Seek Spiritual Fathers Early

  • Young leaders promoted early should seek a spiritual father urgently.
  • Get wise, loving counsel outside your immediate church or team to navigate leadership challenges.
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