

HOW TO ASK QUESTIONS THAT WILL IMPROVE YOUR LOVE LIFE | TOPAZ ADIZES
10 snips May 28, 2024
In this engaging discussion, filmmaker and author Topaz Adizes, known for his work on {THE AND} and his book "12 Questions for Love," shares insights on the transformative power of asking the right questions in relationships. He emphasizes how thoughtful queries can deepen intimacy and understanding. Topaz illustrates how framing questions affects communication and vulnerability, providing practical tips for creating safe spaces for honest dialogue. With real-life anecdotes, he shows how curiosity can enhance connections and improve our love lives.
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Power of Question Framing
- Frame questions in relationships around feelings and subjective truths, not objective facts.
- Replace negative assumptions with empowering prompts to foster constructive dialogue.
Ask Open-Ended Questions
- Avoid yes/no questions in relationships; they limit depth and exploration.
- Use open questions starting with why, how, or what that acknowledge connection and encourage meaningful dialogue.
Heart vs Mind in Love
- The heart seeks love but must navigate internal fears and societal norms.
- Love is an ongoing effort to connect through vulnerability despite personal and cultural barriers.