
Living Myth Episode 465 - The Spell of Perfectionism
Dec 10, 2025
Explore the enchanting yet frustrating world of perfectionism, where the quest for flawlessness stifles creativity and spontaneity. Discover how an old Grimm tale illustrates the journey from silence to self-expression. The discussion reveals that true self-worth lies in embracing our unique imperfections rather than chasing an unattainable ideal. With insights on how perfectionism breeds self-loathing and hinders compassion, the focus shifts to the importance of wholeness, forgiveness, and recognizing the intrinsic value of each individual soul.
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Grocery Flowers Spark a Mythic Reflection
- Michael Meade describes buying imperfect unarranged flowers at a grocery store and reflecting on the frequent use of the word "perfect."
- This small experience triggered a larger inquiry into perfectionism and the symbolism of flowers in myth.
The Three Carnations Tale Retold
- Michael Meade retells the Grimm tale "The Three Carnations," where burned flowers become young men and silence keeps them trapped as stone.
- The heroine's inability to speak and later to voice anguish ultimately frees the brothers and redeems the realm.
Carnations as Flesh, Love, And Incarnation
- Meade links carnations (from Latin carnus, flesh) to incarnation, mothering, and ardent love in mythic symbolism.
- Burning the carnations and transforming them into men symbolizes inner passions seeking embodiment and speech.


