How to embrace – and challenge – the idea of “beauty” in the technological age (w / Elise Hu) | How to Be a Better Human
Feb 21, 2025
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Elise Hu, a journalist and author of "Flawless," dives into the complex relationship between beauty and technology. She discusses how filters redefine societal expectations and shares personal stories from her journey as an Asian woman. The conversation highlights the importance of body neutrality and self-acceptance, especially for future generations. Elise also critiques capitalism's role in beauty ideals and emphasizes the need for candid dialogues to challenge these standards in our tech-driven world.
The relentless pursuit of beauty driven by societal and technological pressures can lead to emotional exhaustion and an inability to appreciate authentic self-worth.
Understanding the impact of global beauty standards highlights the importance of embracing diverse identities and fostering inclusivity in perceptions of beauty.
Deep dives
The Pressure of Beauty Standards
Societal expectations around beauty can exert tremendous pressure on individuals, leading to feelings of inadequacy. This pressure is often amplified by the proliferation of social media and technology, which contribute to unrealistic standards of appearance. Personal anecdotes, like encountering the stark difference between filtered and unfiltered moments on video calls, illustrate how the 'technological gaze' alters self-perception. The idea that one must constantly optimize their looks leads to an exhausting cycle of conformity and self-scrutiny.
Cultural Perspectives on Appearance
Cultural norms surrounding beauty, particularly in South Korea, highlight a significant impact of globalization on individual identities. Personal experiences reveal how the desire for features deemed attractive, like double eyelids, can lead to pressures to conform to western beauty ideals. The shift in societal perceptions is also seen in the way younger generations embrace and celebrate their heritage, as exemplified by the author's children living in a more diverse environment. This contrast emphasizes the evolving standards of beauty and the importance of representation in media.
The Cost of Beauty
Engaging with beauty culture entails notable financial and emotional investments that many may not recognize as labor. This 'appearance labor' dictates that individuals must invest considerable time, money, and energy to meet societal standards, which can overshadow personal ambitions and capabilities. The conversation around the socioeconomic implications illustrates how beauty standards are often tied to class, where those with fewer resources may be disproportionately affected. Thus, the pursuit of beauty can become a relentless cycle that furthers social disparities and reinforces existing norms.
Navigating the Technological Gaze
The 'technological gaze' encapsulates how technology influences perceptions of beauty and self-worth, often creating a feedback loop where individuals feel compelled to meet digital standards. As people strive to emulate those filtered images they see on screens, the line between real-life and curated identities blurs. This dynamic raises critical questions about authenticity in a world dominated by social media. Ultimately, navigating these issues requires awareness, critical thinking, and a commitment to fostering a more inclusive understanding of beauty that transcends superficial norms.
Humans have always been captivated by beauty, and for almost as long, we’ve been marketed products and new technologies to help us achieve certain beauty standards. Elise Hu is a journalist and the author of “Flawless: Lessons in looks and culture from the K-beauty industry.”
In this episode of How to Be a Better Human, another podcast from the TED Audio Collective, Elise shares the fascinating insights she’s learned from years of studying the $10 billion K-beauty industry and the cutting-edge skincare, niche makeup products, and technology that promise to optimize our appearance. Elise and How to Be a Better Human host Chris Duffy talk about the real stakes of placing a premium on our looks, why a more inclusive version of “beauty” is worth pursuing, and how we can both enjoy and push back against the very human desire to feel beautiful. For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts
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