Nomad Podcast

David Hayward - Til Doubt Do Us Part (N320)

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May 10, 2024
David Hayward, the Naked Pastor, shares his transformative journey from pastor to artist, diving into faith deconstruction and its effects on his marriage. He candidly discusses navigating complex relationship dynamics while evolving spiritually. The conversation explores open communication and trust, highlighting the balance between individual beliefs and partnership. David underscores the role of art in expressing spiritual changes, providing listeners with a thoughtful insight into love, commitment, and personal growth amidst shifting faith.
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ANECDOTE

From Pentecostal Roots To Leaving Ministry

  • David Hayward grew up moving between denominations and trained in Pentecostal and seminary contexts before marrying Lisa.
  • He later served as an ordained Presbyterian minister and Vineyard pastor before leaving ministry in 2010.
INSIGHT

Two Kinds Of Deconstruction

  • Hayward describes two strands of deconstruction: theological and ecclesiological, each unfolding over years.
  • He compares it to a corrupt code slowly corrupting a hard drive and altering everything over time.
ANECDOTE

Leaving Ministry Created A 'Perfect Storm'

  • After leaving ministry Hayward and Lisa lost church, income, and structure, creating a 'perfect storm' of stress in their marriage.
  • They spent years in therapy and renegotiation to rediscover how to be married as distinct individuals.
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