Become New with John Ortberg 12. How to Have a "Merry Little Christmas"
Dec 16, 2025
Join a heartfelt discussion as holiday expectations collide with reality. A classic Christmas tune sets the stage for reflections on joy found in ordinary moments. Nostalgia can cloud our view, but true treasure lies in embracing life's chaos. Discover three essentials for a merry Christmas and the profound impact of Christ's presence today. Learn to accept life's messiness while sharing love and hope with others, reminding us all of the joy that can be found even in imperfect celebrations.
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Truth Lives In The Present
- Ortberg argues nostalgia and sentimentality can oppose truth because they idealize the past.
- He says the only place to meet God is in the reality of our present life and circumstances.
A Real Bad Christmas Memory
- John Ortberg recounts a cramped, sleepless family Christmas that devolved into fights and disappointment.
- The memory illustrates how real holiday gatherings often fall short of nostalgic expectations.
Lower Expectations Can Help
- Try lowering expectations as one strategy to avoid disappointment at Christmas.
- Ortberg notes traditions like Stoicism or Buddhism recommend tampering desires to navigate reality.