NPR's Book of the Day In 'The Science of Revenge,' an expert explains why humans are hardwired for payback
Jun 25, 2025
In a fascinating discussion, a Yale psychiatrist reveals that our craving for revenge may be hardwired into us, akin to an addiction. Personal stories illustrate the emotional rollercoaster tied to seeking payback. The conversation dives into the neuroscience behind these impulses, mirroring compulsive behaviors. Cultural perspectives are explored, highlighting the clash between revenge and accountability. The podcast also emphasizes the transformative power of forgiveness, suggesting it could be the key to healthier conflict resolution.
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Kimmel's Teen Revenge Story
- James Kimmel Jr. was bullied as a teen by neighboring farm kids after moving to the country.
- His revenge thoughts escalated to almost shooting them before realizing it would harm his own identity.
Legal Career Fueled Revenge Habit
- As an attorney, Kimmel found legal practice allowed sanctioned revenge as social bullying.
- Revenge gave him highs but also felt compulsive and unavoidable over time.
Revenge and the Brain
- Revenge activates brain areas involved in drug addiction, showing neurological overlap.
- The brain on revenge literally looks like the brain on drugs, linking revenge to addiction.
