Empowering Survivors: The Pastor’s Role in Responding to Destructive Marriages

1. Advice for Women in Conservative Churches

   • Find a trustworthy female within the church to confide in.
   • Seek someone who embodies godliness and can provide a receptive ear.
   • Avoid putting the burden of finding the perfect words or expression on victims.

2. The Role of Humility in Pastors

   • Pastors must have humility when dealing with abuse cases.
   • Be aware of the woman's perspective if she is to speak to the elders. Ways to help her feel safe.

3. Training and Awareness

   • The growth of awareness and training in seminaries and conservative circles.
   • Upcoming training opportunities and resources for pastors and church leaders.
   • Importance of knowing local resources specializing in domestic abuse.

4. Creating Safety Plans

   • Encouragement for pastors to receive proper training and create safety plans.
   • The impact of creating safety plans for victims and changing their perspective.
   • Encouragement for pastors to embrace the labor of love in opposing evil and upholding good.

Conclusion:

• Encouragement for pastors and church leaders to seek training and knowledge in addressing domestic abuse.
• The importance of creating a safe and supportive environment within conservative churches.

Additional Resources:

• "When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church," by Greg Wilson and Jeremy Pierre
• Peaceworks Live 2024
• Quick Start Guide