

819. - Stephanie Danler
Jul 11, 2025
Stephanie Danler, a celebrated writer known for her novel Sweetbitter and memoir Stray, shares fascinating insights on various topics. She discusses Justin Bieber's latest music, her personal experiences navigating grief, and the quirks of LA's dining scene. Stephanie dives into her gluten journey, favorite bars, and the pressures of being 'New York Famous.' The conversation touches on work-life balance, mental health, and her reflections on reading, writing, and the challenges of the creative process—all wrapped in humor and heartfelt anecdotes.
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The Luxury of Reading Choice
- Reading is a luxury requiring discernment to choose worthwhile books.
- One must accept that not every book will engage or be suitable at all times.
Stephanie's Father's Impact
- Stephanie Danler's father died after decades of addiction and alcoholism.
- His death freed her emotional and creative energy to write a personal essay about him.
Brain Reset Through Orgasms
- Stephanie describes an intense, hour-long sexual experience that completely rewired her brain positively.
- She suggests this as an alternative way to "break your brain" without drugs.