BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko 101: Turn His Avoidance Into Obsession: Make Him Chase You & Bond for Good with Adam Lane Smith
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Feb 23, 2025 
Adam Lane Smith, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in attachment theory, dives deep into the complexities of relationships with avoidant men. He discusses the core fears that drive avoidance and provides actionable tips for shifting the dynamics so they pursue you instead. The conversation explores the emotional triggers that inspire commitment and common pitfalls women encounter. Adam emphasizes the importance of open communication, visualizing healthy relationships, and fostering emotional intimacy to create lasting bonds.
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Avoidant Men's Potential
- Avoidant men can become devoted partners.
- This happens only if you understand their needs and provide love in an accessible way.
Attachment Styles Explained
- Inconsistent love and approval during childhood can lead to anxious or avoidant attachment styles.
- Anxious individuals seek approval, while avoidants isolate themselves due to a lack of consistent love.
Advice for Women Dating Avoidant Men
- Stop chasing avoidant men and focus on your own well-being.
- Build secure friendships and communicate your needs clearly and directly.
