How to Outgrow Porn Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle

Nov 26, 2025

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In this episode, I sit down with Drew Boa to discuss his new book, Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle. Drew shares his personal journey and explains why traditional purity culture and military-style approaches often fall short.

We then explore his compassionate, holistic method that focuses on healing childhood wounds, understanding emotional triggers, and embracing inner child work. Drew encourages viewing relapses as feedback, not failure, and highlights the importance of grace and self-compassion in recovery. If you’re a man seeking hope and lasting change, this conversation offers fresh insight and encouragement.

To get the book, visit OutgrowPorn.com. To learn more about Drew and his ministry, visit HusbandMaterial.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Discussion of pornography addiction, particularly among men.
Critique of traditional purity culture and its limitations.
Introduction of the "outgrow porn" approach to recovery.
Emphasis on healing childhood wounds and inner child work.
Exploration of core emotional triggers such as fear, shame, and loss.
Importance of viewing relapses as feedback rather than failure.
Promotion of a growth mindset in the recovery process.
Connection between triggers and childhood experiences.
The role of grace and self-compassion in recovery.
Resources and support available through Husband Material Ministries.

More Resources:

Outgrow Porn* by Drew Boa
Husband Material Resources
Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men

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