014 Plural Marriage Troubles (part 1): John C. Bennett, Hyrum Smith, & Emma
Jun 6, 2023
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Explore the complexities of Joseph Smith's practice of plural marriage in Nauvoo as John C. Bennett's exposure, Hyrum Smith's opposition, and Emma Smith's struggles come to light. Learn about Bennett's illicit affairs, Hyrum's changing views, and Emma's turmoil with the concept of plural marriage. Dive into the challenges faced by these historical figures in this engaging podcast episode.
John C. Bennett's defamatory actions impacted Joseph's plural marriage practice.
Hyrum Smith transformed from opposition to acceptance of plural marriage.
Deep dives
John C. Bennett's Influence and Downfall
John C. Bennett, a gifted convert to Nauvoo, ascended to a key leadership position before his secret practice of spiritual wifery, akin to illicit adultery, was exposed. His defamatory actions directly impacted Joseph's practice of plural marriage. Hiram Smith, initially opposed to polygamy, underwent a transformative moment due to his opposition. Emma Smith, Joseph's wife, struggled with the concept of plural marriage, leading to tensions in their marriage.
Joseph Smith's Journey Into Plural Marriage
Initially struggling with the concept, Joseph Smith began practicing plural marriage discreetly in Nauvoo. Eternity-only marriages were adopted, allowing connections with other families without intimate relationships. Challenges related to dynastic sealings and the delicate balance between adhering to divine commands while respecting emotional connections with Emma Smith were explored.
Hiram Smith's Transformation to Accepting Plural Marriage
Despite initial skepticism towards plural marriage, Hiram Smith experienced a significant change of heart following a conversation with Brigham Young. He approached Joseph for the revelation on plural marriage, eventually accepting the principle and aiding Emma's understanding of it. His journey from opposition to acceptance reflected a transformative experience.
Emma Smith's Struggle with Plural Marriage
Emma Smith's tumultuous relationship with plural marriage unfolded through initial consent followed by emotional turmoil. Her acceptance and subsequent rejection of the practice led to strained dynamics within her marriage to Joseph. A pivotal moment occurred with the writing of a revelation to ensure her approval for future marriages, reflecting the complex and evolving nature of Emma's stance on plural marriage.
As Joseph Smith quietly practiced plural marriage in Nauvoo in 1842 and 43, all was not well. Three people in particular complicated things for Joseph. The first was John C. Bennett, a highly gifted convert who’s meteoric rise to civic and church leadership in Nauvoo abruptly ended when he was exposed for his secret practice of “spiritual wifery,” which was nothing more or less than illicit serial adultery. Bennett’s defamatory opposition to Joseph after his excommunication was fierce and directly impacted Joseph’s own private practice of plural marriage.
Surprisingly, Joseph’s own brother and member of the First Presidency, Hyrum Smith, was openly opposed to polygamy during this time and sought to use his influence to put down any hint of it in Nauvoo, all the while suspecting that his own brother and others of the apostles may be living it. Yet amidst his opposition, in one key moment, everything changed for Hyrum.
Joseph’s wife Emma Smith was the third and most important person in his life to complicate his practice of plural marriage. Although she sought for a time to embrace it, Emma struggled mightily with this practice on many levels—to the point that it almost ended their marriage.
In this episode of Church History Matters we discuss each of these three individuals—John C. Bennett, Hyrum, and Emma Smith—and how each factored in to the complexities and troubles of living plural marriage in Nauvoo.