In this episode, we welcome back relationship expert Alison Armstrong. We explore the profound journey of male development, the transition from knights to princes and eventually kings. We delve into the concept of 'the tunnel,' a challenging phase between princehood and kingship marked by self-awareness, shame, and the necessity of personal responsibility and forgiveness. Alison also touches on the deeply complex and often interconnected dynamics of male ambition, fulfillment, and the need for adventure. We extend to the rare shift some men make from kings to elders, highlighting significant changes in ambition and responsibility.

Today on Bridging Connections:

00:00 Introduction: Self-Betrayal and Shame

00:38 Welcome to Bridging Connections

01:10 Reintroducing Alison Armstrong

01:55 Understanding the Tunnel

03:03 Stages of Men's Development

03:49 Navigating the Tunnel

23:29 The Importance of Adventure

31:15 The Prince Stage

38:07 Anticipation and Initial Reflections

38:56 Navigating Personal Loss and Challenges

40:35 Understanding the Tunnel of Transformation

41:11 Self-Betrayal and Awareness

49:07 The Role of Shame and Anger

49:51 Ownership and Forgiveness

55:28 Emerging from the Tunnel

58:18 Grieving and Moving Forward

01:00:54 Transitioning to Elderhood

01:11:21 Final Thoughts and Resources

Resources:

Alison Armstrong: Chemistry and Connection Series - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3kRxLdJODq54hzbmGHKz5VhTQun5bQuy&feature=shared

Connect with Alison:

• Website: alisonarmstrong.com

• Youtube Channel: AlisonArmstrongVideos

• Resources: Sample Understanding Women

Connect with Bryan & Tait:

• Website: bryanreeves.com

• Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08

The Monday Microsegment for the week of 4/7/2025