#355 Sexual Mastery (for Dudes) From an Adult Film Star Turned Coach - with Erik Everhard
Nov 14, 2023
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Former adult film star turned sexual mastery coach, Erik Everhard, discusses the lessons he learned in the adult film industry about sexual mastery and becoming a great lover. He talks about the ultimate move in the bedroom, the importance of pivoting, and getting creative with different archetypes. He also shares insights on challenges faced by male performers and the power of oral sex.
Belief in one's sexual abilities and mind-body control are crucial for sexual mastery.
Porn is not a reliable educational source for sexual techniques and stimulation.
Knowing when to pivot in the bedroom is essential to attune to your partner's cues and adjust accordingly.
Deep dives
The Importance of Belief and Mind Control
One of the main factors in sexual mastery is having a strong belief in your sexual abilities and being able to control your mind and body.
Using Porn as a Learning Tool
While porn can be entertaining, it has limitations as an educational medium. Positions and techniques in porn are often designed for visual appeal rather than clitoral stimulation or maximizing pleasure.
The Power of Pivoting
Knowing when to pivot and when not to is a crucial skill in the bedroom. It requires attunement to your partner's cues and being aware of what is working and what needs to be adjusted.
The Different Archetypes and Creating Different Moods
Exploring different archetypes such as the tender lover, passionate seducer, dominant power fucker, and crazy spontaneous can help create different moods in the bedroom, bringing excitement and variety to the sexual experience.
The Importance of Pussy Eating
Mastering the art of eating pussy can enhance sexual intimacy, pleasure, and create a deeper connection with your partner. It can also be a powerful tool for lasting longer and exploring new sensations.
What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot so important? And how does getting creative with different archetypes lead to different moods in the bedroom? Repeat guest and sexual master Erik Everhard answers all this and more.
About our guest: Erik Everhard is an author, men’s coach, and former adult film star who specializes in teaching men to recognize and master the primary cues responsible for making 85 percent of women reach the holy grail of sexual interactions: orgasm. His teachings are grounded in practical knowledge, mental tactics, and strategic positions. Holding a master’s-level certification in neuro-linguistic programming and having more than 5000 real-world sexual interactions with women allows him a unique perspective which enables his clients to overcome their limiting beliefs and performance issues, and become masters in the bedroom. To learn more visit everhardacademy.com
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