The Ramsey Show Highlights This Should Scare The Crap Out Of You
Oct 12, 2025
In a candid conversation, a woman reveals her struggles after her boyfriend loses his job. The team discusses whether she should cover expenses, and they express concerns over his lack of urgency in the job market. The experts emphasize the importance of separating finances and establishing boundaries to avoid relational pitfalls. They encourage her to have a direct conversation, watch his reactions, and ultimately trust her instincts about her worth in the relationship. It's a timely reminder about financial independence and self-value.
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Separate Finances Now
- Separate finances immediately: make what’s yours yours and what’s his his while he’s unemployed.
- Treat yourselves as romantic roommates until he proves financial responsibility.
How They Split Household Costs
- Noelle explains their split: he agreed to cover $1,300 rent while she paid groceries and utilities.
- They handled other debts independently, and he paid rent one month while she paid the next.
Require Immediate Hustle
- Push for action: encourage immediate work like part-time or lower-paying jobs instead of waiting for the perfect fit.
- Expect someone who values you to hustle rather than remain passive after job loss.