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Lively v. Baldoni 41 - Calling Yourself a "Ball Buster" Is as Bad as Sexually Harassing Someone When You Think About It

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Nov 4, 2025
The hosts dive into the tensions on set, spotlighting a revealing text thread about producer frustrations. They tackle inconsistencies in timelines and evidence, contemplating the impact of messages on claims between Lively and Baldoni. A playful yet contentious debate arises around a text calling Lively a 'ball buster,' linking it to harassment discussions. They also critique mentions of breastfeeding on set, questioning their relevance. Lastly, they explore how creative stakes affect a lead actress's role, exposing the failures of production leadership.
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INSIGHT

Production Blamed Baldoni's Weak Leadership

  • The production team privately viewed Blake Lively as dominating creative decisions and wanted Justin Baldoni to assert authority.
  • That tension suggests the conflict may stem as much from Baldoni's weak leadership as from Lively's behavior.
ANECDOTE

Warm Pre-Filming Texts Between Leads

  • Justin Baldoni initiated a warm, grateful message to Blake before filming, praising her collaboration and calling her a once-in-a-talent.
  • Lively responded lightly, suggesting a friendly on-set rapport despite later allegations.
INSIGHT

Timing Changes The 'Sexy' Narrative

  • Context matters: wardrobe and 'sexy' comments appear after paparazzi photos and director notes about look concerns.
  • The complaint selectively frames timing to make Lively's comments look unilateral rather than responsive.
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