Radio Maria England ProParent - Ciro Candia - Shaping Your Child's Self Esteem
Dec 4, 2025
Ciro Candia dives into the crucial concepts of self-image, self-esteem, and confidence, explaining their distinct roles in shaping a child's identity. He shares impactful stories, like how praise transformed a boy's reading image. The power of the word 'yet' is emphasized to nurture a growth mindset. Ciro also highlights the vital roles of family conversations and resilience in building confidence while linking faith to self-worth. Additionally, he advises on helping children recognize their temperament and the importance of setting boundaries at home.
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Picture Versus Feeling
- Self-image is the inner portrait a child carries about abilities, worth and place in the world.
- Self-esteem is the emotional reaction to that portrait and depends on whether the picture is hopeful or harsh.
Reading Turnaround With Small Support
- A boy struggling with reading improved after a teaching assistant offered time, praise and adapted approaches.
- The change in his self-image helped him catch up and become a successful lawyer.
The Power Of Yet
- Adding the word "yet" reframes failure as a step toward growth and opens possibilities.
- This shift reflects a growth mindset where ability improves with effort, practice and support.