Shannon and Corey discuss the dynamics between work sex and play sex, emphasizing the importance of making sex feel more like play. They explore the challenges of trying to conceive and the benefits of relaxation and fun in the process. The concept of work sex versus play sex is examined, highlighting the need to slow down and be fully engaged in play mode. They also discuss the significance of emotional connection in a marriage and the importance of shifting the mindset towards viewing sex as play rather than work.
Making sex playful and fun can lead to more energized and fulfilling experiences.
Designating specific times for conception attempts while prioritizing relaxation and pleasure can enhance both the chances of pregnancy and the enjoyment of sex.
Deep dives
Transitioning from Work to Play in Sex
One of the key points discussed in this podcast episode is the difference between viewing sex as work versus play. The hosts emphasize that sex should not be goal-oriented or focused solely on orgasm, but rather on full throttle arousal. They suggest that making sex playful and fun can lead to more energized and fulfilling experiences. The hosts also address the importance of emotional connection and meeting each other's needs outside of the bedroom to create a more playful and enjoyable sexual relationship.
Challenges of Infertility and Sex
Another main topic covered in the podcast is the impact of infertility on a couple's sex life. The hosts acknowledge the struggles that couples facing infertility often go through and how sex can become driven by the goal of getting pregnant. They suggest that couples can designate specific weeks or times for more focused attempts at conception, while using other times to prioritize play and pleasure in their sex life. The importance of relaxation, fun, and the woman's arousal are emphasized in enhancing the chances of conception and making sex more enjoyable.
Balancing Emotional and Sexual Needs
The podcast also touches on the issue of balancing emotional connection and sexual desire in a relationship. The hosts discuss a case where a woman felt she was putting in all the effort to keep their sex life alive while her partner did not reciprocate emotionally. They emphasize the need for both partners to be invested in each other's needs and desires, ensuring that sex is not solely focused on one person's satisfaction. This highlights the importance of open communication and mutual effort to create a more playful and satisfying sexual experience.
There are several different types of sex. But they can often be boiled down to two categories … work sex and play sex. In this episode Shannon and Corey talk the two main ways you can view sex, and more importantly, how to possibly have more play than work. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen […]