Sexy Marriage Radio SMR#184: Work Sex vs. Play Sex, Part One
May 13, 2015
Shannon and Corey discuss the dynamics between work sex and play sex, emphasizing the importance of making sex feel more like play. They explore the challenges of trying to conceive and the benefits of relaxation and fun in the process. The concept of work sex versus play sex is examined, highlighting the need to slow down and be fully engaged in play mode. They also discuss the significance of emotional connection in a marriage and the importance of shifting the mindset towards viewing sex as play rather than work.
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Sex As Work Or Play
- Sex can be experienced as either work or play, and that framing shapes energy and fulfillment.
- Making sex feel like play produces more excitement, connection, and lasting satisfaction.
Infertility Turned Sex Into Mission Work
- Shannon describes her couple's brief infertility period and how sex became mission-driven during fertile windows.
- She suggests making non-fertile weeks playful to restore enjoyment and reduce pressure.
Aim For Arousal, Not Just Orgasm
- Prioritize a woman's orgasm and arousal because contractions can aid conception and deepen connection.
- Focus on full-throttle arousal rather than treating orgasm as the sole goal.