Watts Your Safepod HOW TO BE A “PERFECT” SUB
Apr 30, 2021
Explore the fascinating world of submission, from defining control to finding a compatible dom. Discover how to communicate desires effectively and ensure trust in your scenes. Hear about the playful aspects of training and the emotional benefits of submitting. The hosts bring humor and insight as they discuss the nuances of everyday dynamics and safe boundaries. Plus, find out what motivates people to seek out submission and how to identify red flags during play. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that balances fun with essential safety tips.
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Submission Equals Consensual Loss Of Control
- Submission means willingly giving up control and decision-making to another person for a time or context.
- That relinquishment is consensual and varies by how much power a sub is willing to transfer.
Verify And Talk Before You Submit
- Communicate clearly before submitting: share profile info, photos, and basic personality clues.
- Build trust first by talking and confirming boundaries before consenting to scenes.
A Scene Changed A Boundary
- Mr Kristofer shared that a tied-down scene with a baby bottle of his own urine changed his boundaries toward water play.
- That erotic context made an act he once found icky become pleasurable and sought after.