Shameless Sex #319 Dominance, Submission, and Man Squirt - with Ahmir and Basirah
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Mar 7, 2023 A sexually adventurous couple shares how they discovered kink and built a dynamic involving dominance, submission, and switching. They explore non-monogamy, navigating boundaries and safe words, entering subspace, and the surprising topic of men squirting, with plenty of candid stories along the way.
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Negotiate Kink Boundaries
- If a kink turns you off, negotiate alternatives or have your partner meet that need elsewhere safely, like with professionals or online performers.
- Create scripts and boundaries beforehand so you can participate without killing your own arousal.
Script Humiliation Scenes
- Rehearse specific lines, energy, and a do/not-do list before scenes so humiliation play suits both partners.
- Use a mutual checklist (yes/maybe/no) to find compromises and avoid unexpected shame.
Early Kink Discovery
- Ahmir discovered his dominant instincts at sex parties and dungeons, realizing he enjoyed choking and spanking from his teens onward.
- He later felt proud of the first bruise he left from spanking, marking his early kink awakening.