EP62 - The Domme and the Dominated w/Kimi Inch
Feb 26, 2021
Kimi Inch, also known as Mistress Nina Payne, is a professional dominatrix, sex educator, and content creator. In this lively conversation, she shares her journey into BDSM and how her background in acting enriches her craft. Kimi discusses her viral TikTok moments, emphasizing the importance of humor in kink. She dives into the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, revealing how she helps clients process emotions and navigate boundaries. The episode also touches on her experiences with censorship on social media and the cultural differences in kink communities.
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Persona As An Extension
- Kimi Inch frames her dom persona (Mistress Nina Payne) as an extension of herself rather than a separate identity.
- Her acting background enables spontaneity and strong scene presence, enhancing play quality.
Emotional Reward Of Pro Dom Work
- Kimi finds deep meaning in witnessing clients' vulnerability beyond monetary gain.
- Transformative aftercare and client feedback sustain her motivation to continue the work.
When Boundaries Slipped In Session
- Kimi admitted to breaking her usual boundary by passionately making out with an attractive young client during a two-hour session.
- She treated it as a rare 'heat of the moment' incident and ended the arrangement to avoid crossing lines.





