

Help! I Can't Find a Godly Spouse!
May 12, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Sam Burns shares his inspiring journey of finding love with his wife, Chase, at a singles mixer—an event that many struggle to navigate. They reflect on the emotional rollercoaster of the dating scene, the significance of faith in relationships, and the evolving dynamics of gender roles. Sam offers insights into overcoming self-doubt and the proactive steps necessary for building meaningful connections, all while sharing exciting news about their impending parenthood. It's a candid look at the quest for a godly spouse filled with hope and encouragement.
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Difficulty Finding Like-Minded Spouses
- It's harder to find like-minded Christian spouses in places with fewer Christians like Utah.
- Even within Christian communities, cultural and doctrinal alignment is often lacking.
Early Oversight and Transparency
- Quickly involve elders or parents to help ask important questions and provide oversight in courtships.
- Discuss sexual history early to avoid surprises and build trust.
Prevalence of Functional Feminism
- Most single Christians today are often functional feminists or egalitarians without deep theological grounding.
- This leads to many mismatches even when identifying as Christian.