

The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Jun 7, 2023
In Dominant/submissive relationships, rules provide essential structure and clarity. They guide submissives, helping them focus on their role and the expectations of their Dominant partner. The discussion delves into the significance of negotiating these rules during relationship formation, ensuring boundaries are clear and communication thrives. Various common rule categories are explored, highlighting how they can foster healthy and evolving connections.
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Rules Provide Structure and Guidance
- Rules provide a framework for submission and establish relationship boundaries.
- They help submissives focus on meeting the dominant's expectations.
Communicate and Negotiate Rules
- Discuss rules openly in the negotiation phase to set boundaries and expectations.
- Adjust or negotiate rules as comfort levels and needs change over time.
Common Rules in DS Relationships
- Common rules include obedience, respect, communication, dress codes, and agreed punishments.
- The number of rules varies; following them consistently is what matters most.