Ever tried to tie a shoelace, wipe a bum or fasten a seat belt only to hear “NO! MUMMY DO IT!”? Why do kids prefer one parent over the other? And how can you get them to accept help from both of you?

If you’re parent number two in the eyes of your child, but you’re desperate to do just as much as your partner does, parenting author Maggie Dent has some tips for you.

The advice provided in this podcast is general in nature and does not take into account your personal situation. If you require further advice specific to your needs please consult a professional.

Host: Maggie Dent
Producer: Josie Sargent
Consulting Producer: Carmen Myler
Executive Producer: Kim Lester
Sound design: Simon Branthwaite
Field recordings: Rebecca McLaren

Help: I'm a helpful dad but my kids only want mum