Ep 121: The Queen Space and Bringing out the Best in Men with Alison Armstrong

In this episode, I’m joined by Alison Armstrong, a sought-after speaker and thought leader amongst people with the desire to live empowered lives. Her exploration of human behavior began in 1991 when she decided to study men and the connections between men and women’s behavior. She shares all about the journey she went on to get curious about men and becoming a thought leader in this space.  The question of, are men just responding to women, and how this changed Alison’s perspective of men. Understanding how men and women are both different and the same. What women do that turn men into frogs. The hierarchy of human instincts. How to move into the Queen space as women and not shut men down. How instinct and culture make us lead with sexuality. The most attractive quality is self-confidence. How women can start to open themselves up to receive more. Being clear in your boundaries as a woman. The different initiations that men go through and what they experience. How women can support men when they're going through the tunnel. How a man and woman’s midlife crisis differs. How men and women grow together through the tunnel. Getting clarity and telling men what they need to hear, as they are motivated by the difference it’ll make. Doing the due diligence to find out everything about yourself before you find out everything about the other person. How men see women. Being curious about what you’re doing and how it affects men. The freedom and kindness of not trying to get something from people that can't give. Guest Bio: Alison Armstrong’s exploration of human behavior began in 1991, with her decision to study men: “To find out how I was bringing out the worst in them. And hopefully, how to bring out the best.” Her success in understanding men naturally led to studying women’s behavior and making vital connections between the two.  As her work evolved over decades, Alison now illuminates human characteristics that precede and express themselves regardless of gender, age, and upbringing. She distinguishes normal human instincts that compel both men and women to behave in ways that contradict and undermine our own purposes, goals, values, needs, and relationships.  Besides fulfilling the need to understand “why” people behave as they do, Alison offers practical, partnership-based alternatives. Through her seminars, books, online programs and media contributions, she has been giving millions of people access to more fulfilling lives, loving relationships, stronger families, and productive organizations.  Alison is a sought-after speaker and thought-leader amongst people with the desire to live empowered lives. Her philosophy and approach are referenced and taught by other authors, speakers, business consultants, and therapists.  Her live events and over 100 hours of online programs are available at alisonarmstrong.com.  SHARE THE MAGIC.  If you enjoyed this episode and it spoke to your soul in some way today, please be sure to take a screenshot, share it on Instagram, and tag me @lisa__hillyer. Also, please be sure to leave us a review and a five star rating if you're loving what we are doing. #phoenixrising Join the Phoenix Rising Patreon Portal. Subscribe to Lisa's mailing list. Let's connect on:  Instagram and Youtube.

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