Episode 121 – Financial Infidelity
Aug 13, 2025
Dive into the complexities of financial infidelity, uncovering what it really means and how it can manifest in relationships. Discover everyday examples of secret spending and hidden debts that can erode trust. Hear a personal tale of family bankruptcy that underscores the emotional toll of financial deceit. Learn practical strategies like no-judgment budgeting and the importance of open money conversations to foster transparency. Get tips on addressing issues together, ensuring healthier financial dynamics in partnerships.
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Definition Varies By Couple
- "Financial infidelity" means doing something with money your partner wouldn't want or know about.
- Definitions vary by couple, so different standards make it a tricky issue.
Control Can Become Coercion
- Control over finances can become coercive when one partner excludes the other from decisions.
- Managing finances is fine if it is agreed, transparent, and respects both partners' values.
Hidden Bankruptcy Devastated A Family
- Chris Budd's father hid mounting financial problems until bankruptcy forced disclosure.
- The secrecy aimed to protect family but left his partner angry and bitter for years.