In a lively conversation with Jill Sirianni, co-host of the Frugal Friends Podcast and co-author of 'Buy What You Love Without Going Broke,' the hosts explore the inefficacy of traditional budgeting, especially for neurodivergent minds. Jill shares insights about the concept of being a 'financial goldfish' and discusses the psychological traps of impulse buying. They advocate for values-based spending and offer practical strategies like conducting a 90-day transaction inventory and creating pauses before purchases to foster mindfulness in financial decisions.
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Financial Goldfish Analogy
Kasey Davis compares herself to a financial goldfish, always spending up to the limit.
She jokes that like a goldfish in a bigger tank, her spending increases with more resources.
insights INSIGHT
Budgeting as Dieting
Budgeting is like dieting: restrictive and often ineffective for managing finances.
Spending is a skill to be developed, not a moral failing.
insights INSIGHT
Marketing and Impulsive Spending
Societal pressures and marketing tactics exploit our psychology to encourage impulsive spending.
These tactics make us feel like we lack what we need to belong, leading to unnecessary purchases.
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I have an honest confession to make. I am a terrible budgeter, but I’m a world-class financial goldfish. In this episode, I’ll explain my “financial goldfish” status and budgeting for our neurodiverse brains. I’m joined by Jill Sirianni, host of the Frugal Friends Podcast. If you’re like me, and budgeting just doesn’t work for you, you’ll learn a lot from our conversation. Join us!
Show Highlights:
Characteristics of a financial goldfish
Budgets–the diet of the financial landscape (and they don’t work any more than diets do for most people)
Top reasons we fall victim to impulse buying
The myth of “Wants vs. Needs”
The downfalls of typical antiquated budgeting
Creativity in meeting needs without spending
Jill’s 90-day transaction inventory
Helpful online tools
A moral problem vs. a systemic problem
KC’s helpful hack to be more thoughtful before spending impulsively (like late-night DoorDash)
Jill’s tips for creating a pause before spending: keep a list and buy second-hand
Understanding the marketing behind sales
Making choices about your behavior today that may not align with spending habits held up as the “standard”
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