Psychology In Seattle Podcast Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 2 - Definition and TikTok Reactions)
Nov 25, 2025
Discover the intricacies of limerence, defined as an intense, obsessive form of romantic infatuation. The discussion dives into core features like yearning and longing, while tackling the nuances of reciprocation. Learn about different relationship dynamics that often lead to limerence, including unrequited love and complicated targets. Kirk also critiques popular online definitions, highlighting the differences between normal infatuation and pathological limerence. Prepare for a deep, insightful exploration into the psychology of love!
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Core Definition Of Limerence
- Limerence is defined as an intense, obsessive, involuntary, non-psychotic romantic infatuation.
- These four descriptors mark it as a distinct psychological state rather than ordinary attraction.
Non-Psychotic, Not Erotomania
- Limerence is non-psychotic and distinct from delusion-based erotomania.
- This excludes cases where belief in reciprocation is a florid psychotic delusion.
Look For Communicated Reciprocation
- Treat reciprocation as the presence of communicated shared feelings rather than mere hope.
- Check for explicit communication before assuming mutual attraction.