Hey Lifers,

Today's special little ep is one that we promised a few weeks ago!

Britt's boyfriend Ben jumped on the pod and they spoke a bit about their relationship and how they navigate long distance. (You can listen here!)

Firstly, we finally hear Ben's thoughts on the shrine. Sorry for creating your longest running argument Britt...

Then we find out a lot more about who Ben is and what it was like growing up in Switzerland and becoming a professional footballer (not soccer player; we listen and learn).

-I matched with a guy on hinge and things were going really, really well. I was the first person that he'd been with since a bad break up a year ago. After a few weeks of everything going great, he's now become really "busy" when ever I try to make plans. I haven't seen him for 3 weeks. He tells me he likes me and likes hanging out with me. I've reassured him that I'm happy to take things slow because I really like him.

-Is it always the case of "if he wanted to, he would"

-How does an emotionally unavailable person become emotionally available?

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