The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

309: How To Find Peace In The Middle Of A Marriage Crisis

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Oct 21, 2025
Gretchen faced a marriage crisis when her husband announced divorce in front of their kids, leading to intense fights and emotional distance. After unsuccessful counseling, she turned to online resources and discovered transformative skills to rebuild their connection. By practicing gratitude, respecting his choices, and focusing on self-care, they shifted from living as roommates to experiencing joy and intimacy. Their renewed relationship not only changed their dynamic but also positively impacted their children, proving that lasting change is possible.
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ANECDOTE

Divorce Threat At A Crisis Moment

  • Gretchen recounts driving home from Colorado after her son's accident when her husband announced he planned to divorce her in front of the kids.
  • That declaration triggered escalating fights, intense family tension, and the start of the worst period in their marriage.
ANECDOTE

From Marriage To Roommates

  • After researching divorce, Gretchen's husband decided to stay as a roommate until the kids graduated rather than pursue divorce immediately.
  • Their marriage became purely functional: he provided financially but intimacy and connection were gone.
ADVICE

Search For Answers Led To A How‑To

  • Gretchen Googled “why does my husband hate me” and found Laura Doyle's blog, which offered actionable how-to guidance she could try immediately.
  • She downloaded the book and listened obsessively to learn practical steps to change her approach.
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