Skip The Small Talk with Ellie Middleton 10 things I learned the hard way in 2024 đ¤ | Skip The Small Talk with Ellie Middleton
Nov 24, 2024
In this insightful discussion, Ellie shares ten hard-earned lessons from the year. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing that not everyone will reciprocate your kindness. Traditional markers of success may lead you away from true happiness. Balancing self-push and rest is tricky, while socializing sober can enhance confidence. Toxic friendships can hurt your well-being, and it's crucial to be aware of how words are interpreted. Ultimately, Ellie reminds us that growth is a journey, and it's okay to take it one step at a time.
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Not Everyone Shares Your Good Intentions
- Peopleâs intentions differ and assuming everyone is as kind as you invites being taken advantage of.
- Ellie warns that always assuming good can leave you vulnerable, but assuming bad feels bleak too.
Success Can Steal Your Happiness
- Traditional markers of success can consume energy that actually reduces happiness.
- Ellie found career wins often meant sacrificing the simple activities that made her feel human.
Control Your Words, Not Others' Reactions
- Control how you word things and let go of how others interpret them when it's out of your control.
- Ellie advises focusing on kind, true, and necessary words instead of policing every possible reaction.