Why We Need Healthy Sexual Male Role Models (DQ Solo)

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Curious with Jake Podcast feat Dominick Quartuccio: Sexual Performance, Sexual Shame and Sexual Health

 

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Why do we only hear about men’s sexuality when it’s a problem?

 

Why do we hear SO MUCH about the sex lives of Donald Trump, Tiger Woods and the fuckboys of the world...

 

...yet we hear SO LITTLE about the sex lives of men who are genuinely doing it well? 

 

We’re all fumbling around trying to figure out our sexual selves.

 

Naturally, we look to others to find our way.

 

We take our cues from those we deem “sexually successful.”

 

All too often those are the players, pick-up artists and porn stars. 

 

Think about the implications of that for a minute.

That’s dangerous.

That’s unacceptable. 

 

I’m here to play a part in tearing down the old model.

 

I’m stepping forward to help fill this void of healthy masculine sexual role models.

 

My sexuality was a problem for many years of my life because I had no role model to learn from or talk to. 

 

I bottomed out and ended up in Sex Addicts Anonymous for 4 years as part of an intensive process to clean my shit up. 

 

Now, my sexuality is one of the greatest gifts and most powerful forces in my life. 

 

I don’t know what you want to hear from me or how my story might help.

 

But I do know I’ve got more to offer than the players, pick-up artists and porn stars.   

 

If there’s something you want to see or hear more about...

 

...my lines of communication are open.  

 

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(PS - thank you to Dr. David Ley for introducing me to the concepts of “sexual role model” and “why do we only hear about men’s sexuality when it’s a problem?”)