Sleeping Around

Emily Nagoski on What Happy Couples Know That Others Don’t

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Jan 7, 2025
Emily Nagoski, award-winning author and celebrated expert in sex and stress education, joins to unpack the secrets of thriving relationships. She discusses the essential elements for satisfying long-term sexual connections, the ingredients for open communication, and how to navigate personal desires. Emily also delves into the balance between excitement and inhibition in sexual response, while emphasizing the value of pleasure beyond the bedroom. Her insights on self-discovery, mindfulness, and the importance of discussing sexuality openly empower listeners to enhance their intimate relationships.
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ANECDOTE

Emily Nagoski's Journey

  • Emily Nagoski's interest in sexual health began with a peer health educator role in college.
  • This work, alongside crisis intervention, led her to this career path.
INSIGHT

Dual Control Model

  • The dual control model explains sexual response as a balance between accelerators (turn-ons) and brakes (turn-offs).
  • Addressing 'brakes' like stress or body image is crucial for a satisfying sexual experience.
ADVICE

Identifying Accelerators

  • Reflect on past positive sexual experiences to identify your accelerators.
  • Consider the context, partner characteristics, and your feelings to understand what worked.
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