#82 - Modern Dating is BROKEN: The Real Reason You Can’t Find Love

In this episode of The New Age Sage, we dive deep into the truth about dating, relationships, and what women are truly looking for. Joined by men’s work coach Wayne Barkus, we uncover the reasons why traditional dating games often backfire, why “nice guys” and “red pill” approaches fail, and what makes feminine qualities attractive to women today. Wayne shares valuable insights on moving beyond stereotypes and “polarity” theories, offering a practical blueprint for creating authentic, lasting relationships. If you're tired of the games and want a genuine connection, this episode provides the tools to navigate dating with confidence, integrity, and a deeper understanding of what it takes to find and keep the partner of your dreams. ——————— Wayne Barkus: Wayne Barkus is a men’s work coach and relationship expert dedicated to helping men build authentic, fulfilling connections by breaking away from traditional dating “games” and rigid gender roles. Through his unique approach, Wayne encourages men to embrace emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and genuine respect in relationships. He challenges outdated beliefs about masculinity and femininity, guiding his clients toward meaningful partnerships rooted in mutual respect, empathy, and shared values. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asacredking/ ———————

00:00 - Introduction: Navigating Modern Relationships

02:10 - Expectations vs. Reality in Dating Today

08:20 - Why "Good Guy" Traits Aren't Always Enough

15:35 - Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies in Love

23:10 - Breaking Down Society's Views on Submission and Dominance

30:20 - Overcoming the Ego's Influence in Romantic Connections

38:40 - The Spiritual Side of Intimate Relationships

45:50 - Embracing Vulnerability as a Strength

52:10 - Navigating Disappointments and Growth in Love

59:25 - The Importance of Self-Awareness in Attracting a Partner

1:07:35 - Finding Balance Between Independence and Connection

1:15:45 - Recognizing and Healing Relationship Traumas

1:23:50 - Creating a Lasting Connection Through Openness

1:31:00 - The Dance of Masculine and Feminine Energies

1:39:15 - What True Commitment Means in Modern Dating

1:47:40 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways

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