

92. How FIRE Changed Everything - But Not the Way I Expected
May 21, 2025
After a decade on the FIRE journey, the speaker reflects on unexpected feelings of restlessness despite achieving financial independence. Parenthood has reshaped their views on work, prompting a quest for deeper purpose beyond money. They discuss the value of discomfort and growth, how entrepreneurship reignited their passion, and the role financial security plays in family life. It’s a heartfelt exploration of balancing freedom with responsibility and the true meaning of fulfillment.
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Unexpected Dissatisfaction of Early Retirement
- Achieving financial independence gave Matt control of his time but did not fulfill his need for purpose.
- The expected joy of early retirement was dampened by an unexpected dissatisfaction and lack of contribution.
Starting Businesses for Purpose
- Matt started two businesses to regain purpose and reconnect with his community after early retirement.
- One is a data analytics company satisfying his technical interests; the other is a co-working space to support local entrepreneurs.
Growth Through Discomfort
- Personal growth generally requires discomfort; uncomfortable moments often precede rewarding achievements.
- Matt identifies that important life advances brought a "knot in your stomach" feeling, indicating growth outside the comfort zone.