Vlad Savchuk Podcast Episode 11 - 10 Lessons from 10 Years of Marriage
Aug 21, 2020
38:16
10 Lessons for Marriage from 10 Years of Marriage // Vladimir Savchuk
1. Without deliverance, marriage wouldn’t last. Freedom is the foundation of a good lasting relationship.
2. God called us to love, not change our spouse.
3. Learn to complain and not criticize your spouse. Complaining is sharing your feelings, criticizing is attacking the other person.
4. Learn the love language of your spouse. Speaking the love language of your spouse is like learning a foreign language.
5. Sex is superglue in a relationship, brings a couple closer. Devil will do his best to push singles into sex and pull married folks out of having sex with their partner.
6. It’s not about God first, marriage second and ministry third, put God first and marriage serving together in ministry.
7. Marriage is for dating. Go on dates weekly and vacations yearly.
8. Don’t try to be rich quick. Don’t compare and compete with other couples.
9. Spouse is a flower they don’t grow by being pulled but by being watered. Don’t be guilt-tripping, be stingy, demanding, controlling, and manipulating.
10. Be interdependent, some are too dependent and others are too independent of their spouse. Let your spouse grow as an individual without drifting apart. Marriage shouldn’t be a prison sentence.
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Download “Relationship Goals” Audio Sermon Series on Marriage on https://www.vladimirsavchuk.com/store/p64/Relationship_Goals_Series_%287_Audio_Sermons%29.html/
Give a gift to Pastor Vlad & Lana on their 10th Anniversary:
http://www.paypal.me/vladhungrygen
CashApp: $VladSavchuk
Venmo: @VladSavchuk
1. Without deliverance, marriage wouldn’t last. Freedom is the foundation of a good lasting relationship.
2. God called us to love, not change our spouse.
3. Learn to complain and not criticize your spouse. Complaining is sharing your feelings, criticizing is attacking the other person.
4. Learn the love language of your spouse. Speaking the love language of your spouse is like learning a foreign language.
5. Sex is superglue in a relationship, brings a couple closer. Devil will do his best to push singles into sex and pull married folks out of having sex with their partner.
6. It’s not about God first, marriage second and ministry third, put God first and marriage serving together in ministry.
7. Marriage is for dating. Go on dates weekly and vacations yearly.
8. Don’t try to be rich quick. Don’t compare and compete with other couples.
9. Spouse is a flower they don’t grow by being pulled but by being watered. Don’t be guilt-tripping, be stingy, demanding, controlling, and manipulating.
10. Be interdependent, some are too dependent and others are too independent of their spouse. Let your spouse grow as an individual without drifting apart. Marriage shouldn’t be a prison sentence.
_____________
Download “Relationship Goals” Audio Sermon Series on Marriage on https://www.vladimirsavchuk.com/store/p64/Relationship_Goals_Series_%287_Audio_Sermons%29.html/
Give a gift to Pastor Vlad & Lana on their 10th Anniversary:
http://www.paypal.me/vladhungrygen
CashApp: $VladSavchuk
Venmo: @VladSavchuk