Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto 79: Your Kid Isn’t the Problem - The Power Struggle Is Sabotaging Your Parenting with Vivek Patel.
What if parenting didn’t have to be a battle of wills? And wouldn't it be nice to welcome your child's "no!" instead of it igniting a power struggle?! I feel you.
Today on the Emotionally Intelligent Parenting Podcast, I sit down with Vivek Patel, founder of Meaningful Ideas, to explore what some call a radical yet deeply effective approach—Noncoercive Collaborative Parenting.
Vivek shares why kids resist us more when they trust us less - and how the common fallback to coercion damages that trust.
But instead of simply telling us what not to do, Vivek offers clear, practical steps for building a relationship where cooperation flows naturally.
We dive into:
✨ The "Model, Guide, Friend" framework and how it can transform your parenting.
✨ Why hearing “no” from our kids feels so triggering and how to embrace it as a gift.
✨ How to teach kids to set boundaries and resist peer pressure, without controlling them.
✨ Debunking the myth that noncoercive parenting raises “soft snowflakes” or kids who walk all over us.
✨ Inspiring through values—and the importance of knowing and living your own.
Vivek also shares his personal journey of raising his now-28-year-old daughter this way—despite being raised in a home filled with control and coercion. His insights are powerful, practical, and guaranteed to shift the way you think about guiding your child.
💡 One of Vivek’s most powerful reminders:
“When your child says no, say: ‘Thank you so much for telling your truth.’” Mindblowing?! Yup. Have you ever tried it? Probably not. Radical, powerful - TRY IT.
If you’re ready to move beyond power struggles and create a parenting approach built on trust, connection, and collaboration—this episode is for you.
🎧 Tune in now and discover how to guide your child while respecting their voice.
Find out more about Vivek’s work here:
W: meaningfulideas.com
IG: @meaningfulideas
FB: facebook.com/meaningfulideas
YT: youtube.com/c/meaningfulideas
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Hi, I'm Stephanie Pinto. I'm an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives.
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