Michael Easley inContext Dependence on God & Building Deep Friendships with Jeff Kemp
Summary:
In this episode, Dr. Michael Easley and former NFL quarterback Jeff Kemp talk about what it means for men to follow Jesus with humility, dependence, and intentionality. Kemp draws from John’s Gospel, where Jesus repeatedly affirms that He only does what His Father tells Him to do. Michael reflects on how staggering it is that the God-man chose to say and do only what pleased His Father. Jeff unpacks this further: if Christ Himself modeled such dependence, then we too must stop striving to impress God and instead learn to receive from Him.
The conversation then turns to one of the greatest needs among men today—true friendship. Many men isolate, even while surrounded by people, leaving them lonely, insecure, and vulnerable. Kemp encourages men to take simple but intentional steps: initiate, honor others, pray together, and practice accountability. He shares practical questions for building deeper friendships, emphasizes the power of confession, and reminds us that level-five friendships are rooted in Christ and His Word.
At the heart of this conversation is a simple challenge: don’t try to live the Christian life alone. Depend on Christ. Invest in other men. Take the initiative to build friendships that are honest, prayerful, and life-giving.
Takeaways
- Jesus modeled total dependence on the Father, and we are called to do the same.
- Men often isolate, leaving them vulnerable to loneliness and insecurity.
- True friendships require initiative—reaching out, honoring, and encouraging others.
- Confession and prayer with trusted friends bring healing and strength.
- Practical questions and accountability take friendships beyond the surface.
- Deep, Christ-centered friendships are essential for spiritual growth and resilience.
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