

The Sunday Edition: I live with two men. Both are my ex-husbands.
Jul 12, 2025
A woman shares her intriguing journey of living with both of her ex-husbands in rural Scotland. What seems like a throuple is actually a unique family unit navigating co-parenting challenges. Delving into emotional complexities, she reveals how this unconventional setup has fostered personal growth and shared responsibilities. The balance of personal space with cohesive teamwork forms the heart of their harmonious lifestyle, showcasing the evolving nature of family dynamics in modern times.
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Living with Two Ex-Husbands
- Kristie De Garis lives with both of her ex-husbands and their two daughters in a shared house in rural Scotland.
- This unconventional living arrangement supports shared parenting and mutual support despite past relationships ending.
Shared Domestic Labor Eases Pressure
- Shared domestic responsibilities across three adults significantly ease the pressures of parenting and household management.
- This collective support creates space and relief for Kristie that she had not experienced for years.
Ex-Husbands Learning to Cook
- Kristie stopped making dinner alone after cooking daily for 20 years until her ex-husbands learned to cook.
- Both ex-husbands now share cooking duties, a skill they developed that benefits the entire family.