In today's episode, Dr. Corey Allen joins us for a deep dive into fictional, but incredibly common, marriage scenarios that reveal surprising truths about desire, conflict, and emotional maturity.

We explore how sexual and relational struggles aren't mistakes—they are intentional invitations to grow up, become more courageous, and see our spouse more clearly.

In this episode, we cover:

Why sexual struggles are built into the work of marriage
How meanings—not the issue itself—drive most conflicts
How to own your part in the marriage
Why many husbands unconsciously hedge their investment
The danger of "minimum requirement" sex
What real married love is
What is actually better than "being happy" in marriage

If you're ready to see your marriage challenges from a whole new angle, this episode will change the way you think about intimacy and growth and the purpose of marriage.

Links Mentioned:

Apply for the next Get Your Marriage On! Program: getyourmarriageon.com/program
Learn more about Dr. Corey Allen: SMR.fm (Sexy Marriage Radio)

Events:

In-Person Retreat April 2025 (We're sold out, but you can apply to get on the waitlist!)
NEW Get Your Marriage On! Cruise: October 2026

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