#48 How to Move to Friendship (After Having Feelings)
May 24, 2024
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Guest Lakshmi, named among the 'Best Guests of 2023' on tech and culture podcast PIVOT, discusses transitioning from romantic feelings to friendship in modern dating. Topics include changing relationship progression, later daters' considerations, navigating deep friendships post-marriage, and seeking support for personal growth.
In modern dating, transitioning from romantic feelings to friendship is a common challenge due to the changed progression order.
For later daters, post-divorce, forming deep friendships is crucial; honest communication and boundaries aid in transitioning relationships.
Deep dives
Impact of Dating Apps on Relationship Progression
Before dating apps, relationships typically evolved from friendships to romantic involvement. The introduction of dating apps flipped this progression, making it more common to transition from initial encounters back to platonic connections. This shift presents a modern dating challenge, particularly for individuals in the 45 to 59 age bracket.
Navigating Friendship and Romantic Dynamics in Later Data Life
For later daters, especially in the post-marriage phase, rediscovering deep emotional connections and meaningful friendships can be challenging. The episode discusses how individuals, primarily men, may struggle to form close friendships while married and how reconnecting with this level of connection post-divorce can be enriching. It highlights the importance of honest communication and setting boundaries to transition from unreciprocated romantic feelings to genuine friendships.
Transitioning from Romantic Interests to Friendship
The podcast emphasizes the value and challenges of shifting from romantic attraction to friendship, especially in later stages of life. It suggests steps like creating distance, envisioning friends' romantic happiness, and engaging in other fulfilling activities to facilitate a smooth transition. Encouraging genuine intentions in friendship declarations and maintaining open communication are vital in navigating the complexities of evolving relationships.
There's more to the "Let's Be Friends" transition in modern dating and it's often overlooked. The order of how relationships progress has changed and this switch in order explains a lot. This is a critical thing for Later Daters to consider. Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture
podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of-pivot/id1073226719?i=1000639439067
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