The Sexual Wellness Sessions Rethinking Desire with Dr Karen Gurney
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Aug 14, 2020 Join Dr. Karen Gurney, a clinical psychologist and sexologist known for her groundbreaking book, as she unpacks the complexities of sexual desire. She challenges the conventional notions of desire, presenting it as a motivational force shaped by societal influences and personal histories. The discussion emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy, communication, and intentional connection in enhancing sexual relationships. Dr. Gurney also explores the idea of 'sexual currency' and how everyday interactions can deepen intimacy between partners.
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Desire as Motivation
- Desire is more of a motivation than a physical urge.
- It's about wanting to engage in sexual activity for a rewarding experience, not a fixed drive.
Fixed vs. Fluid Desire
- Societal discourse often frames desire as a fixed concept, like "high" or "low" sex drive.
- However, desire is highly context-dependent and fluctuates throughout life.
Desire Discrepancy
- Mismatched desire in relationships is more common than perfect alignment.
- It's often misattributed as a problem with the lower-desire partner, not the dynamic itself.
