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The Sexual Wellness Sessions
Rethinking Desire with Dr Karen Gurney
Aug 14, 2020
Join Dr. Karen Gurney, a clinical psychologist and sexologist known for her groundbreaking book, as she unpacks the complexities of sexual desire. She challenges the conventional notions of desire, presenting it as a motivational force shaped by societal influences and personal histories. The discussion emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy, communication, and intentional connection in enhancing sexual relationships. Dr. Gurney also explores the idea of 'sexual currency' and how everyday interactions can deepen intimacy between partners.
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- Desire should be viewed as a contextual motivation influenced by various factors, rather than a static urge dictated by societal norms.
- Mismatched desire in relationships is common and should be navigated through open communication and understanding, rather than blame.
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Rethinking Desire as Motivation
Desire is conceptualized as a motivation rather than a fixed physical urge. This perspective shifts the focus from a supposed static libido that society dictates everyone should possess to an understanding of desire as contextual and changeable. Instead of seeing desire as constant, it can be influenced by various non-sexual rewards and situational contexts that make sexual experiences feel worthwhile. This redefinition allows individuals to unpack the complexities of their sexual motivations, addressing the elusive nature of desire itself.
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