Explore the consequences of unchecked desires and the importance of setting limits. Prioritize Jesus over personal desires and reflect on Peter's denial. Learn to manage screen time and unchecked appetites. Find purpose in self-denial for Jesus, fueled by the gospel. Discover mutual submission in relationships. Surrender ambitions and desires to follow Jesus.
Unchecked appetites can interfere with everything God has for us in life.
Self-denial is not about exclusivity or misery, but about embracing a greater purpose beyond ourselves and living for the common good.
Deep dives
The Importance of Self-Denial and Following Jesus
Jesus invites us to deny ourselves and prioritize our allegiance to Him over our own desires. It is not about exclusivity but about aligning our lives with a greater purpose and calling. Our appetites, though not inherently bad, should be checked and not left unchecked, as the unchecked pursuit of our appetites can lead to our destruction. Self-denial is difficult, as it goes against our natural inclination towards selfishness. However, denying ourselves leads to finding our purpose in God and living a life that is dedicated to the praise of His glorious grace. The fuel for self-denial is the gospel, as it fills our lives with the mercies and grace of God, driving out our self-centeredness and enabling us to live in pursuit of Jesus.
The Difficulty of Self-Denial
Self-denial goes against our natural desires and requires effort and discipline. It can be challenging to resist our selfish inclinations and the deceptive messages of our culture that prioritize self-fulfillment without reservation. However, self-denial is not about exclusivity or misery but about recognizing the limits in our lives and embracing a greater purpose beyond ourselves. It is through small acts of self-denial that we gradually develop a life that is fully submitted to Jesus, even when it contradicts our natural tendencies.
The Result of Self-Denial: Finding Purpose
By denying ourselves, we discover our true purpose, which is to bring glory to God and to live for the common good. Our purpose in life is not about personal fulfillment or seeking recognition for ourselves, but about becoming a means to an end that points back to God. When we trade our independence and self-centeredness for a life of mutual submission to God's will, we fulfill our intended purpose and experience a thriving relationship with Him.
The Fuel for Self-Denial: The Gospel
Willpower alone is insufficient for self-denial. The gospel, the mercies, and grace of God, becomes the fuel that propels us to overcome our selfish inclinations. A life filled with the Holy Spirit, Jesus, and the gospel enables us to deny ourselves and focus on a greater affection. By allowing our lives to be filled with God's presence, we crowd out self-centeredness and find the strength to live a life of self-denial and pursuit of Jesus.