PDA Parents Episode 5 - PDA Outside of the Home
Apr 8, 2021
The discussion covers the challenges of parenting children with Pathological Demand Avoidance in social settings. Masks and safe spaces for authentic expression are highlighted. The hosts reflect on the emotional toll of navigating social interactions and the healthcare system. They share personal anecdotes about parenting struggles during evaluations and meltdowns. There's also an emphasis on the need for flexible therapy approaches, especially adapting sessions outdoors to support the child's unique needs.
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Masking's Hidden Costs
- Masking is common in autistic children but driven by fear and need for safety, not just social norms.
- It often causes huge psychological cost without safe spaces to be natural.
Supporting Social Breakthroughs
- Rose wanted to leave a park social after a short time but was given choices and support.
- This led her to ask for help and eventually enjoy the outing with breaks and soothing chews.
Use Exits and Sensory Tools
- Always provide an exit option when outside to reduce anxiety and resistance.
- Bring sensory tools like snacks and accepted comfort objects to help children self-regulate in social spaces.