Not Just Sunday: Christian Life, Following Jesus, & Daily Discipleship Why Most People Never Change (And How You Can)
Oct 7, 2025
The conversation dives deep into why honesty is crucial for lasting transformation. Self-deception is revealed as a major barrier that keeps people stuck in their ways. They share powerful stories illustrating motives behind lying and the need for radical honesty, particularly in communities like AA. The hosts discuss how confession can lead to healing, and they emphasize the importance of loving friendships that promote growth. Listeners are encouraged to embrace honest self-reflection and accountability for true change.
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Short-Term Boost, Long-Term Block
- Self-deception serves short-term motivation but blocks long-term growth by hiding real flaws.
- Patrick Miller and Keith Simon argue that repeating falsehoods can delay necessary heart-level change.
Hidden Addiction Cycle
- Eric struggled with decades of pornography and kept it hidden due to shame and fear of confession.
- His cycle of ‘one last time’ shows how self-deception preserves addiction and prevents reaching out for help.
Start With Radical Honesty
- Be radically honest with God and others as the first step toward real change, following AA and biblical encouragement.
- Confess to trusted friends and keep confessing; honesty plus mercy fuels transformation.
